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  • Changing the Way You Think About Money

    Most of us grew up with money being the root of all evil, or it didn't grow on trees, or many other negative lessons about cash. Whether we admit it or not, those little statements shaped how we view money. And, if you can accept that, then this simple mental exercise can change your thinking going forward.

    First, check under your car seats, couch cushions, pockets, behind the dressers, etc., and collect all the loose change in your home. Make a pile and divide it equally in half. Now, cash the change in for bills. It doesn't matter how little the pile is. Just make sure there are 2 equal amounts.

    Now, take one of those "piles" of cash and give it away. I don't care where. Church, the cans at convenience stores, PTA, or where ever they are collecting for charity.

    Take the other pile and do what ever you want with it. Buy a candy bar, a book, or whatever the amount lets you spend. Then, take a breath and look at what you've done. You've given money away to charity and then spent it on something totally unnecessary. WOW!

    If you can afford to give money away and spend it carefree, then you have enough in your life. Now, it's just a question of how to rearrange it so you can get yourself debt free. Instead of telling yourself, "I can't afford it." Start asking, "How can I afford to do this?" Change your mind. Change your outcomes. Change your outcomes, change your life.
    Last edited by bjl584; 01-12-2016, 10:35 AM. Reason: forum rules

  • #2
    Nice self promotion you tool bag.

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    • #3
      Take one of those piles of cash and give it away to who? YOU?
      retired in 2009 at the age of 39 with less than 300K total net worth

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      • #4
        I visited your website. To be quite frank, I just don't see how the items you value at $1246 are worth anything near that.

        A "personal financial freedom strategy" is a $149 value? People can't possibly list their debts and identify a sensible payoff order on their own? They need to pay $149 for that? Really?

        A "weekly debt diary" is a $99 value? You aren't aware people can purchase a composition book at Wal-Mart for a dollar? Or blog online, as many do here at SavingAdvice, for free?

        If you would like to participate in these forums in a meaningful way, welcome. If you are trying to drum up business, you have come to the wrong place.

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        • #5
          I deleted and edited all of your self promotion.

          I'm hoping that you can contribute to the forum without peddling your website.

          As you have seen, there is no tolerance for that here.
          Brian

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          • #6
            Another bite the dust!
            Got debt?
            www.mo-moneyman.com

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            • #7
              Originally posted by Creditdiet View Post
              Most of us grew up with ...
              a poor knowledge of the foundation of our culture.

              "Money is the root of all evil"

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              • #8
                I'm left wondering about all this "loose change" that I supposedly have in my car, behind furniture, under the sofa, etc.

                *looks under the sofa*
                *digs into pockets*
                *rifles through the console in the car*

                Nope! I guess I was taught to keep change in a jar and cash it out when it gets full, because money has value. Why would I throw it around the house like confetti?

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                • #9
                  Ouch!

                  Keep, Keeping on!

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